Learn the first step to mastering fear and boosting your confidence when you feel insecure, anxious, or just plain stressed out in any situation.

confidentby Lisa Lane Brown

It took me a long time to understand this, but the opposite of confidence and self-esteem is fear.

That’s why if we want to boost our confidence, we must understand fear at a deeper level.

Years ago when I was competing as an athlete, I wasn’t scoring and my anxiety was escalating.

So I did what all the self-help books said to do, which was repeat positive affirmations and visualize success.

And none of it was working.

I turned to my teammate and asked her, “What do you do to get your confidence back when you’re in a slump?”

She said, “I watch the goalie and the defense to see what they are doing to stop me. Then I change my strategy and score.”

Ouch. So simple!

Why hadn’t I thought of that?

I hadn’t thought of it because I had been programmed (by everyone in my life and all the books I read) to think that fear was a shameful, useless emotion.

Why listen to it? It was just a mistake, “False Evidence That Appear Real,” created by my weak, negative mind.

I was supposed to dismiss it – if I had any gumption.

Problem was, trying to dismiss the fear using these methods only worked 50% of the time (at best).

My teammate’s advice was so elegant and practical it gave me pause.

I thought, “What if some fears are NOT the product of a weak mind? What if some fears are legitimate? If so, no wonder I can’t manipulate myself out of them.”

The way we “see” any concept or person – our paradigm – is what shapes our reaction to it, according Dr. Stephen R. Covey.

If we think a fear is a silly, exaggerated emotional reaction, we’ll probably react to it with shame and disgust.

But if we see a fear as a legitimate response, we’ll view it differently.

Breakthrough Confidence and Success

Fear becomes a powerful sixth sense worth listening to, the way my teammate did.

By now you’ve probably figured out the first step towards mastering fear.

It’s telling the difference between a silly fear and a legitimate one. Most fears are created by our imagination and never to come pass; these ones fall into the “silly” category. But other fears serve as genuine warning bells and deserve our attention.

Once you have the skill of being able to tell the difference between silly vs. legitimate fears, you’re like a doctor – able to prescribe the proper solution for your fear.

You’re able to wipe out all sorts of fears – even those that have dogged you for years.

That’s why in my audio program, Secrets of Deep Mental Toughness, I teach you how to tell the difference between the two.

Armed with deep mental toughness, you’ll experience your true greatness, increase your earning power, and turbocharge your career.

The best part?

I’ve done the work for you. I’ve painstakingly created a series of five audio lessons in this program that take you through the process of mastering fear. The program even includes visualization recordings that re-program you for confidence, security, and self esteem no matter what circumstances you are facing.

Check out the Secrets of Deep Mental Toughness program to boost your confidence here.

Your friend,
Lisa B.

Breakthrough Confidence and Success

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Olympian,
Women’s Softball

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I have met with Lisa for years now and she is the most caring, compassionate, and genuine person that I have had the pleasure to know. She helps me become a better version of myself after every one of our sessions. The best part is that Lisa has given me the confidence to overcome adversity in my past and has given me the tools to build a successful future for myself and my children. Thank you Lisa!.

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Mental toughness propelled me to set some very high goals and achieve every one of them. The approach to positive AND negative thoughts and emotions helped me move through the obstacles that were standing in the way of what I wanted.

Marty LarsonMarty Larson
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Mental toughness helped improve my confidence and focus in my personal, business and sport activities. I now have a competitive advantage I am confident in circumstances that others find frustrating or overwhelming. I recommend the training to anyone who wants to change the way they deal with problems of life.

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I’ve learned that there are answers to my problems there are ways for me to be successful! This course has been life changing for me.

Shannon MillerShannon Miller
Olympic Coach,
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Genuine confidence is an absolute necessity if you want to reach your potential. I’ve worked with Lisa as a personal mental toughness coach and have accessed Lisa’s talents in training teams I have coached. Lisa’s work is very effective because she delivers the training at the level the clients need…and it’s the type of training that you take with you and use on a daily basis
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This course is changing me. It is changing everything about my life. I have learned how human beings work…not just in sport but in life in general. I have taught my family about the things you teach me. They are mesmerized by what I read them. To understand human emotion changes the way I think and look at myself, and others around me. I am growing.

SHAWNEE HARLEShawnee Harle
Basketball Head Coach
University of Calgary
Mental toughness has the athletes confront their Inner barriers and access their self-confidence. I’m a better coach today because I know how to look beyond the x’s and o’s of the game. I relate to my athletes better.

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Finalist,
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Mental toughness has changed my life. I was able to overcome an emotionally devastating divorce and find ways to deal with close relationships. Mental toughness training has also given me the skills and to deal with life issues ranging from financial through health/ fitness and relationships of all types.

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I was going through a VERY hard time in my life and needed someone to help me internally.  Lisa, thank you! Your words, your homework, and your help made a huge difference in my life.  I am a much better version of myself, being confident and happy and I appreciate you with all my heart.

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I’m a happier and more
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CHRISTINE PARRISChristine Parris Washington
Olympian,
Women’s Softball

After mental toughness, I am now a better player physically and mentally. I am able to apply my focus for success. The program put everything into
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ASCA Level 2 Certified Coach
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